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MyFOREVERVALENTINE 💖 When I first got married I thought I HAD to give him a child for him to love me more, for him to want to stay with me longer, for him to cherish me more. But, I DIDN’T have to… he told me I didn’t, and he showed me I didn’t have to. He loves me and STILL LOVES ME unconditionally. It’s crazy the way society makes you think and feel. That if you don’t have a child you are less of a women. Say what? If You don’t have a child, your husband won’t love you as much. Get the F outta here with that BS! Times are different and things have changed. Women are more independent now than before that they are having babies on our own… some women want the baby and not the man, I don’t judge them for that. But me, I want the man and not the baby and my husband feels the same.
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I know so many people who have babies for the wrong reasons and end up proving to me that a baby didn’t keep the marriage strong or keep it together. He didn’t love you more because you had his child, he ended up loving the child more than he loved you and you ended up being nothing to him, or stayed with you only because you two have a child but cheats. 🙄🙄🙄
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So you see, I may not have everything but I have everything I need in life. I have a good man, a roof over my head, 2 beautiful furbabies. In my book I’m winning 🙌🏜🙌🏜
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some of you people say to me, “you don’t have children so how could you be happy… “ here’s my answer, I am more happy than some women who have children are, I am happiest with my husband and I’m happier because it’s just him and I. We are happy just the way we are and we are grateful for the life we have together, just him and I.
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